Monday, June 2, 2008

All Dressed in White: The Irresistable Rise of the American Wedding

I had a lot of fun with this book. It is an historical look at the birth of American wedding customs and how they have evolved over the course of America's history. Carol McD. Wallace draws some very insightful and deep correlations between a culture's views of meaning and goals and how that effects wedding customs. She shows how that which is done in the most intimate and personal of events (a wedding) is a reflection of what is believed and lived in the the culture at large.

Speaking as someone who grew up outside American culture, this book helped me to understand why Americans do what they do in weddings, and why American weddings look the way they do today. Ms. Wallace's perspective was informative for me personally, as well as very affirming for many of the things I have felt but not understood or been able to articulate about the "American White Wedding." Overall, I couldn't put it down!

I wouldn't recommend All Dressed in White to very young ladies as it does discuss some mature topics, although it does handle them in a tactful, delicate way. For anyone interested in planning or participating in a meaningful wedding, or the history of wedding customs, it is a must-read.


Janna said...

Sounds like a very interesting read! I enjoy wedding planning books -- all the little details and fun traditions fascinate me. Have you ever read Emily Post's "Etiquette"? It offers a intriguing look at American weddings near the turn of the century.

I'm so glad I've found your blog! It is lovely. I'll be waiting for your next post... :)

Laura said...

Aww, that sounds sweet. Perhaps I can request it from inter-library loan. :-)

Ruthie said...

Thanks for stopping by my blog. It's so nice to meet another MK.
My kids have been wanting me to write about my experiences as an MK in China, and I thought this was a good way to get started.
Let's keep in touch.

April said...

Janna, I think we might actually have that book! Something that sounds very similar to that was in a box of my aunt's old stuff when we moved here. It's good to have you here!